Abba

I've always thought the idea of young children having security objects, such as a blanket or stuffed toy, was wonderful. I imagine that life can get somewhat overwhelming when you are introduced to new people, places and things each day. You are constantly trying to master new skills and concepts, not even knowing for yourself the extent of your abilities. In the midst of so many mysteries and adventures, it must be very comforting to have something familiar to carry around and wake up with in your crib each morning. I fully support this coping mechanism of childhood. Lucas fully supports it as well - in fact, I would say that he is extremely committed to the cause.

You were introduced to his "Abba" in earlier posts - it is a blue shirt of mine that I used to give him literally off my back when he had trouble sleeping. At first it smelled like me, which apparently was comforting, and then it took on a life of it's own. Noah and I called it "shirt", but Lucas settled on "Abba" for a name.



It has been great to see Lucas self-soothe so successfully with the help of his pal. However, things are getting a little bit difficult with Abba. Lucas has let us know that Abba would like to join him in the bath each night. Don't get me wrong, Abba could use a good bath, but getting it soaking wet half an hour before he cuddles up to it at bedtime is not a good plan. Abba is apparently rather persistent and Lucas is totally sold on the idea. So much so that we have to go through an extensive ritual for leaving Abba on the counter (where it can watch) while Lucas comes in the bath.

How can a shirt "watch" bath, you ask? A shirt doesn't have eyes! Au contraire! Lucas has in fact pointed out Abba's eyes and nose to me. Lucky for me the thing doesn't have a mouth yet, but I swear I can feel it watching me.

Most recently Lucas refused to go into the petting zoo without Abba. Mommy said no, being that the petting zoo is full of dirt and goat poop. Lucas and Abba teamed up on me, however, and while Ethan tripped and fell into a pile of goat droppings, they snuck by me. Note Abba's presence in the cute pictures taken by Linus and Sadie's mom. You win this time Abba!